Welcome all Parents,
“Beti ka Baap”, a father of a daughter is considered as a curse by the society. But why? Just because the parents have to spend on daughter’s wedding? Why don’t they understand that the parents who have daughters are the luckiest. She loves them unconditionally. Even after getting married. She will never leave her parents in any circumstances.
When I was pregnant for 3-4 months, I was told that “Ladka hona chahiye – A boy should be born”. Hey wait a minute, how could I decide that it should be a boy. Scientifically, it all depends on the father. And if parents are happy with a baby girl, who are you to decide about the child. Will you let her learn the things? Will you help us in her education? Will you help us in her wedding? No, right!
One day, with tears in my eyes I asked my husband – Whether he wants a baby girl or baby boy. He said – It’s a gift of God, we must welcome whatever it is.
In subsequent months, sometimes I didn’t feel the kicks of the baby and I used to get tensed. My hubby used to read it from my eyes and he would touch the baby and asked to respond. Within seconds, I could feel the kicks. That was an amazing feeling. I used to tease him that it’s “Papa’s Child”.
When our daughter was born, my hubby was asked if he is happy or not. My eyes were waiting for his answer. He instantly said, “Yes, I love my daughter. In today’s world both are equal.”
I fall in love with him all over again with his response.
The society has no right to curse the parents for the birth of a daughter. We love our child, no matter it’s a boy or a girl.
Our daughter loves him a lot. Generally the child says “Mumma” first, but my daughter said “Papa” first.
May be she has heard what her father has replied to the society on her birth.
One more thing I didn’t like is that,
People don’t want to raise a daughter, they don’t want to educate her, they don’t want her to be independent, and they always curse her.
But then, why do they want to do “Kanyadaan – of a neighbor’s daughter”.
Do they really deserve the blessings of God?
Daughters are “Mumma’s darling and Papa’s princess”. They are unique themselves and their love is unconditional.
Love your daughter and spread the love.
C ya soon..
Byee..
Each child is special in a way !!! Its sad that still people have bias thoughts for girl child...They need to understand girls are as deserving as boys, In fact sometimes they do more favours than boys..
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